feat: add connect property setting function to native connector

[menshibin]

Description

Add connect property setting function to native connector.

Jira: https://jira.taosdata.com:18080/browse/TD-34747

Checklist

Please check the items in the checklist if applicable.

• Is the user manual updated?
• Are the test cases passed and automated?
• Is there no significant decrease in test coverage?

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 93.75000% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 81.53%. Comparing base (c8bb43d) to head (f01745a).
⚠️ Report is 89 commits behind head on 3.0.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
taos/cinterface.py	77.77%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##              3.0     #328      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   84.41%   81.53%   -2.89%     
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  Files          24       24              
  Lines        3453     3541      +88     
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- Hits         2915     2887      -28     
- Misses        538      654     +116     

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[zitsen]

We need a disscussion for this pr.