ci: update node version, use provenance #33

Job	Run time
create prebuilds (macos-latest)	2m 33s
create prebuilds (ubuntu-latest)	1m 17s
create prebuilds (macos-latest, --arch x86_64)	2m 31s
create prebuilds (windows-latest)	4m 15s
create prebuilds (ubuntu-24.04-arm)	58s
verify prebuilds	4s
publish	43s
	12m 21s

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